Frot Nation …because dicks are just more fun than assholes

A New Direction

I’ve been writing for this blog or its early incarnation for over two years and I’m running out of ways to say “not every same-sex attracted man is into anal sex”. I think this message is vitally important, especially to younger men who feel erotic feelings for other men but Read more →

My Mission to Civilize

By: Elvert Barnes

One of my loyal readers shared a link to a discussion thread on a popular, fitness oriented, gay social networking community called Real Jock. The discussion begins with a young man who states he can’t get into anal sex. (Read the thread HERE) Surprisingly, there were some very supportive responses Read more →

Guys Like Us

Every guy who is into anal sex assumes every same-sex attracted guy has the same feelings. The assumption that every dude who is into dudes is either a top or a bottom is widespread and frankly, I’m sick of it. Make it known that you’re opposed to anal sex and Read more →

Blame it on Gay Porn

gay porn over-emphasizes anal sex

I recently had a discussion with a 20-year-old man from a rural part of America. He was out on a limited basis and identified himself as a virgin. I am a Frot activist who is on a mission to educate and civilize. In fact, I consider it one of my Read more →

What is Frot?

By: Guillaume Paumier

The following is an excerpt from FactualWorld. I found the article especially interesting with regard to the politics of Frot. Frot: The Basics Frot is a slang term that describes a form of male to male non-penetrative sex, where two men engage in the rubbing of erect penis on erect penis Read more →

HIV is on the rise again (except in the Frot community)

By: Timothy Takemoto

I am pleased to offer another guest post written by one of our loyal readers. In this post, “Loverman” discusses a topic that I often overlook when I discuss frot and our community. The gay community’s bizarre obsession with the anus is a deadly one. The risks associated with anal sex Read more →

The Invisible Tribe

By: Guillaume Paumier

There are a lot of same-sex attracted guys who view anal sex as debasing and emasculating. These guys tend not to identify themselves as ‘gay’ because of all the baggage that label carries with it. It’s almost as if gay men are obsessed with the anus and have no capacity Read more →

Frot Brothers Unite!

non penetrative m2m sex

The Internet is a wonderful thing! It allows groups of people who would otherwise remain marginalized to find one another. The Internet allows us to find others who share common interests and thereby help us feel a little less isolated. The past few years have brought an increase blogs and Read more →

Man to Man: Frot Manifesto

By: ND Strupler

It might seem like overstating the obvious but, chics don’t have dicks. I recently had a discussion with a cousin who was genuinely surprised when I explained to her that no, I don’t like anal sex.  Without thinking or censoring my words for my supportive, straight family members, I blurted out, “if Read more →

Myths within the gay community

gay stereotypes

I’m not part of the gay ‘in-crowd’. Never have been and probably never will be. I’m okay with that. In fact, I’ve been a contrarian all my life and I see those tendencies only getting stronger with age. Part of what causes me to hesitate to identify myself as gay Read more →

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